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OK guys, I need help with a male answer. .... You guys kid me often about women over-thinking things... That when a guys asks a question, women have to analyze it and give a detailed response when all they are truly wanting is a simple answer.
SO that being said... when you guys ask your wives/girlfriends where they want to go or what they want for a special occasion (such as an upcoming birthday) are you really expecting an answer? I MEAN REALLY? Come on what is the purpose of answering that when I can just go get or do whatever I would say on my own... where is the thought process or originality behind the wife/girlfriend telling you what to do for them? Just curious because I know those very questions are coming (they always do - lol) and I want to be prepared.
Nah.......it's just the simple fact that "I" would want to do smethin you would want to do, not me:) Your day is your's, not mine if that makes sense. I would want you to have the things you wanted to do and not about me!! That's the way a guy that respects you thinks....we ain't all that smart ya know...LOL
Please...spare us the details. Is this a warmup to a more challenging question? Women are purely fickle and honestly wouldn't wait around to get something they have wanted unless they know their guy is spontaneous enough to exercise the element of surprise. There are women who give hints to make their men aware that they are either looking to go someplace they have never been before, or anticipate the man eventually giving hints as to what they plan to do as another element of surprise. Why would a woman think twice to set themselves out to look for something they really want when they know the one they are with will fulfill their needs with something special or a vacation?
There are women who hate surprise, yet others who are simply put in awe and enjoy it because they are least expecting it. If they do not get it, it either hurts their self esteem, or they strive to spoil their significant other because they know the man is going to reciprocate. Women wouldn't stand for anything less, because they're just not going to be around when a man shows their appreciation.
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ahhhh, barb, such a good question, but I don't think it has any definitive answers. I mean, all guys, gals, relationships, moods, thought processes etc. are different. A question/response may be different after a good meal.......or a few beers or a good roll in the hay !!
Mostly when I ask the questions, like 2/3 or 3/4 of the time I am looking for a thoughtful answer. Then there's the remaining % when I am just blowing smoke. Probably just like you gals.
Generally, I like to please, so I am looking for the response, buy that's just me. I am unique, just like everybody else.
Never, ever criticize someone until you have walked a mile in their shoes........for at that point they will be a mile away. And you'll have their shoes !
as a single man...i can honestly say that we ask because we don't know what to get. i think women should just accept the fact that we don't give a shit. it might be every woman's nightmare but the guy wants to get what you want. we don't want to get something that you'll take back the next day. so we ask. it's that simple.