bobalou Posts:5155 Followers:147
On 09/22/2011 01:00 PM in General

I need a male answer LOL

OK guys, I need help with a male answer. .... You guys kid me often about women over-thinking things... That when a guys asks a question, women have to analyze it and give a detailed response when all they are truly wanting is a simple answer.

SO that being said... when you guys ask your wives/girlfriends where they want to go or what they want for a special occasion (such as an upcoming birthday) are you really expecting an answer? I MEAN REALLY? Come on what is the purpose of answering that when I can just go get or do whatever I would say on my own... where is the thought process or originality behind the wife/girlfriend telling you what to do for them? Just curious because I know those very questions are coming (they always do - lol) and I want to be prepared.



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junkmansports Posts:1135 Followers:26
09/22/2011 01:03 PM

It always kept me out of trouble but then again I have been divorced twice LMAO

Careful guys we got a lady asking a questions that she all ready has the answer to

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  • 09/22/2011 01:22 PM

    Now Junk.... If I already had the answer would I be asking the question? Honestly... this isn't a trick question on my part.... I just want to know how to answer a question that I personally think is silly in the first place without upsetting anyone.

    Now that's not difficult is it? LOL

    I know you guys love me and my questions... I'd just like some honest male feed back this time. Cuz I just don't get it - Sports is a much safer topic for me LOL!




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crazytrain Posts:153 Followers:3
09/22/2011 01:19 PM

We ask cuz we want our gals to have a good time on special occasions for them so we don't flub it up and take you to a race or something....:)

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  • 09/22/2011 01:55 PM

    Fair enough but if taking me or that special someone to a race is your idea and your gift to her... why would that be flubbing up. I guess that's what I don't get... To me if it was his idea (even if it wasn't my favorite thing in the world to do) But it was HIS choice of what to do to me ... that would be more important and the best gift ever rather than me having to tell him what to do... Does that make sense or do I not think like most women.. OH don't answer that because I already know I don't... LOL



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crazytrain Posts:153 Followers:3
09/22/2011 04:27 PM

Nah.......it's just the simple fact that "I" would want to do smethin you would want to do, not me:) Your day is your's, not mine if that makes sense. I would want you to have the things you wanted to do and not about me!! That's the way a guy that respects you thinks....we ain't all that smart ya know...LOL

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  • 09/22/2011 05:06 PM

    But at least we know that when that special day does come that we know how to cater to our queens. We know how to pamper our women when it comes to a special ocassion like a birthday because we know that when the guy's comes around their woman would want to do the same for us. A guy who would want to respect a woman's wishes and that enjoys spoiling her on her specila days and perhaps others that don't have to hold significance are the simple things in life that make a woman respect a guy for how he feels about her.

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jimmythegreek Posts:11456 Followers:384
09/22/2011 04:58 PM

Please...spare us the details. Is this a warmup to a more challenging question? Women are purely fickle and honestly wouldn't wait around to get something they have wanted unless they know their guy is spontaneous enough to exercise the element of surprise. There are women who give hints to make their men aware that they are either looking to go someplace they have never been before, or anticipate the man eventually giving hints as to what they plan to do as another element of surprise. Why would a woman think twice to set themselves out to look for something they really want when they know the one they are with will fulfill their needs with something special or a vacation?



There are women who hate surprise, yet others who are simply put in awe and enjoy it because they are least expecting it. If they do not get it, it either hurts their self esteem, or they strive to spoil their significant other because they know the man is going to reciprocate. Women wouldn't stand for anything less, because they're just not going to be around when a man shows their appreciation.

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  • 09/22/2011 05:23 PM

    NO setting up for a bigger question.. at least not from me. You guys make such valid points.. See I knew you'd have the answers for me... What would I do without my male forum buds to help me understand. Crap at my age this should be easier not harder LOL... Most quote Special Days are just another day to me. Oh I like to be acknowledged I suppose but not really drug around town for no other reason that I'm a year older. I suppose I'm too easy. Just cook dinner for me and do the dishes for me and let me relax it the tub and watch the game sounds wonderful to me...



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  • 09/22/2011 11:13 PM

    Oh boy I am a dead man next March. I dont stand a chance. I say that because having two of you thinking alike I will be overmatched, overwhelmed and just along for the ride. lol
    Nobody will understand this Bob except you, which you obviously are aware. :)

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thehitman Posts:2638 Followers:5
09/23/2011 06:40 PM

ahhhh, barb, such a good question, but I don't think it has any definitive answers. I mean, all guys, gals, relationships, moods, thought processes etc. are different. A question/response may be different after a good meal.......or a few beers or a good roll in the hay !!
Mostly when I ask the questions, like 2/3 or 3/4 of the time I am looking for a thoughtful answer. Then there's the remaining % when I am just blowing smoke. Probably just like you gals.
Generally, I like to please, so I am looking for the response, buy that's just me. I am unique, just like everybody else.

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premiumplaya Posts:368 Followers:3
09/24/2011 02:25 AM

as a single man...i can honestly say that we ask because we don't know what to get. i think women should just accept the fact that we don't give a shit. it might be every woman's nightmare but the guy wants to get what you want. we don't want to get something that you'll take back the next day. so we ask. it's that simple.

Good luck.
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